On Sunday 10th May, 2020, I had the honour of sharing a message through my church’s online service. I have since received many messages from people saying it was exactly what they needed to hear. As well as requests for me to put something in writing. So, here is a condensed blog based on what I said. If you want to have a listen, click here.
Mark 9: 21:24
So Jesus asked [the father], “How long has this been happening to [your son]?” And he said, “From childhood. And often [the spirit] has thrown him both into the fire and into the water to destroy him. But if You can do anything, have compassion on us and help us.”
Jesus said to him, “If you can believe, all things are possible to him who believes.”
Immediately the father of the child cried out and said with tears,
“Lord, I believe; help my unbelief!”
I love the simplicity of this prayer, in verse 24: With tears in his eyes, the man said to Jesus, “Lord I believe; help my unbelief!”
A prayer for Christians, in the middle of all this craziness
For me, last week was a tough week. Bad news hit, one day after another, for three days in a row. Two people I’d worked with, and someone I was in the middle of writing about, had died. And in between, we heard a friend of mine had a stroke. This all following the deaths of two others I knew in the preceding weeks. These things hit me, like tidal waves. One after another. And, I was left reeling.
But in the middle of it all… This verse:
“Lord I believe;
help my unbelief!”
So, I see this being the prayer of a believer. The first part says as much – “Lord, I believe.” For those of us who are Christians, our problem is not that we don’t have faith in God.
But often we can become overwhelmed by our situation.
We present them to God: God, look at this mess! Look at what is happening right now! Look at what I am facing! God, please, just take a look. Have compassion on us. Have mercy on us. What is happening right now? I don’t understand!
We know He is God.
We know He can fix it.
We know He is in control.
We know He is still on the throne.
But, all we can see is a huge mess.
So, yes… Lord… Although I believe in YOU.
Have you seen what is happening right now?
I believe YOU ARE GOD
I believe there is NOTHING You cannot do!
I believe the storm can be stilled
I believe You are the God who heals
I believe you bring peace I don’t understand, in spite of what is happening
I believe the battle is Yours, and You will fight for me, and my family
But Lord…. Help my unbelief.
Because what I can see, doesn’t match what I believe, right now.
Step one: Stop looking around!
Although we can’t see how this can change, we believe God can do it. Because this is what faith is! Believing something be true – the evidence of what we can’t see, yet (Hebrews 11:1).
Romans 8:24-25: …hope that is seen is not hope; for why does one still hope for what he sees? But if we hope for what we do not see, we eagerly wait for it with perseverance.
And then we remember the past
Because we are human, we also tend to look backward, at our past failings and disappointments, presenting these to God, along with the current mess.
Lord, remember when this person prayed for my situation, and nothing changed.
Lord, remember when someone gave me that word from You, but nothing happened.
Lord, remember when I cried in the middle of the night because my life had gone so wrong.
Remember when I lost that job, remember when I didn’t get that promotion, remember when I had that accident, remember when I wanted a child, remember when I became ill. Remember, Lord? Remember???
Lord… I do believe.
In You.
You who created the heavens and the earth and everything in it
You who saw me before I even took my first breath
Your who breathed Your very breath into my lungs
You, who with one touch, can heal.
You, who with one word, can turn any situation around.
You, who by the Power of Your Holy Spirit raised Jesus from the dead
Who by the same power gives us life. In abundance.
You, who knows what I need before I even ask you
But right now, I need You to help my unbelief.
Because I am weak.
I have been weakened by my past disappointments.
I’ve been weakened by people who said they spoke for You.
I’ve been weakened by unanswered prayer from my past.
Step two: Stop looking backward!
We know who God is, and we know He has worked in our lives in the past. Instead of focusing on the times when we didn’t see an answer to prayer, it’s time to focus on all those times He did.
Lord, remember when you blessed me last week.
Remember when you answered that prayer.
Remember when you showed how much You care through the kindness of friends and strangers.
Remember when you healed me.
Remember when you healed my friend.
Remember when You rescued me that time
Remember when You turned my life around.
Remember then, Lord?
And then we doubt we’re good enough for God to help us
Just like the father in this passage, we hesitantly ask Jesus, “if you can do anything…” And then we might soften it a little, unsure of whether we can directly ask for what we really want: “…have compassion on us and help us.” (V22)
Jesus I believe… in You… But do I always believe you are willing to help me?
In this, Lord, help my unbelief.
This is when Jesus asks of us, just as He did of the child’s father: If you can believe, all things are possible to him who believes.
There is a difference between faithlessness and when we have allowed our faith to become limited – for whatever reason.
A few years ago, a friend of mine bought me a necklace with a tiny mustard seed in it. It is a beautiful reminder for me, that I don’t always need to have big faith. And when my faith isn’t as big as it could be, that’s OK. But, I am also grateful God’s stepping into my situation, or the problem, is not dependent on how much faith I have. He just says, “If you CAN believe, all things are possible to him who believes.”
Step three: Stop looking inward!
When we know who we are, and who God is, we don’t need to be shy about asking God for help. We have a boldness to approach Him about anything, knowing He will hear us and He will help us. Kids don’t hesitate in asking for things. So, if we are truly children of God, why do we hold back, thinking we are unworthy of His help, or attention?
Hebrews 4:16 “So let us come boldly to the throne of our gracious God. There we will receive his mercy, and we will find grace to help us when we need it most.”
In conclusion…
So, instead of looking around, backward, or inward, we need to look up. Away from the problem, away from other people, and away from our flaws or what we think needs to happen. Looking, instead, to the One who gives life.
Our belief in God Himself may be unwavering. This is the one thing we are sure of in all this craziness. That we have a God, who loves us, who saved us, who forgives us and has an eternal future awaiting us.
And so, because we really do know the character and nature of God, this is why we can say, with true conviction, sometimes with tears in our eyes,
“Yes! Lord I do believe;
this week, I ask, please help my unbelief! Amen!”
Wait? I’m not sure if I do believe!
If you can’t yet say, “Lord, I believe”… Here is an invitation for you:
In Deuteronomy 30:19 God says:
“This commandment that I’m commanding you today isn’t too much for you, it’s not out of your reach. It’s not on a high mountain… And it’s not across the ocean… No. The word is right here and now… I place before you Life and Death, Blessing and Curse. Choose life… And love God, your God, listening obediently to him, firmly embracing him. Oh yes, he is life itself…”
If this is where you are at, here is a prayer for you:
Lord I want to believe;
but help me in my unbelief! Amen!”